An Open Letter

To be or not to be?

(The reader may not get disillusioned by the title.The following blog comes from a blogger who has been on errands for seeking new ideas and finally after severe aches here I am. End of this disclaimer.)

Where are ideas?

Winters are here! There is something very strange about winters.The foggy or smoggy( for pyari dilli) mornings have a touch of enigma( and poison ofcourse).The sunshine gives hope, relief and warmth.Even the flowerless trees look appealing.Moreover, the chilly tremors feel beautiful.People call me psychopath for a reason ,now you got ! 

The year is about to end and I remember my new year's resolution for this year was to write atleast one blog every month.Last month I couldn't write anything as I was facing writer's block.Sometimes I just use such fancy terms to raise my spirits.But honestly there were a number of things to write about but a kind of resistance was there.I was being silly or dumb or may be they are synonyms.So November gave me a reason to restart and rethink as Untrodden Path.Let me brush off all other identities that I possess.

Judgemental hai kya?

In the 2005 movie pride and prejudice which is based on Jane Austen's celebrated novel Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth Bennet and Mr Darcy face situations wherein their assumptions about eachother and world were largely prejudiced.They judged eachother based on the account of society and stories doing rounds in the city.In the end they learn to unlearn their differences and realise that all our assumption about others are perhaps a reflection of our true selves.It would have been  a peaceful world if all thought that way with everyone.But gory reality of this madding world is that our lives are so fast that none is really willing to think that's why we judge others.

The victims are the ones who are sensitive and can hardly believe that people around can have negative thoughts about them.But the actual sufferers however, are the ones who judge others say mean things without giving a thought to what impact it can have on the other person.Let me be more clear, such people are cowards and lunatics who themselves have zero potential but are ever ready to criticise the ones doing their best.

Recently, I too faced such turmoil. Such morons are everywhere.I won't make this all gloomy by saying my sing song dialogue.'log mennu judge karde'.Instead, I will write about how amazing it is that atleast people talk about me, I am not lost.Or as they say I am the talk of the town :) We need to be who we are not what others want us to be.Judgemental people are habitual of criticizing others and if you have come across a few that means you are doing some really good work.That's why your presence matters.The rest are just dead fishes.Woof!!! I was willing to write about this since a long time and now I feel relieved.Overthinking gives anxiety and nothing else.It's better to just breathe and enjoy every moment of life.As life is like a bowl of noodles if you waste your time untangling it you will miss out on its taste!

 How can I forget to mention what vg said about judgemental attitude of people? The advise is simple- just laugh it out! don't take even yourself seriously coz at the end of the day,it's night!

I wanted to end this on a very light note so all I would say is . I am now least concerned about OPINIONS.I hope the readers will also feel as much relieved as I am.

ASMITA